The Curious Relationship Between Richard the Lionheart and King Philip II of France

richard-and-phillipToday I found out Richard the Lionheart and Philip II of France “ate every day at the same table and from the same dish, and at night their beds did not separate them.”

There are a number of monarchs throughout history who are believed to have been gay. Richard the Lionheart and Philip II are just a couple of kings who seemingly would rather have a relationship with a man than produce an heir and a spare. However, though Richard has been treated as something of a gay icon for years, direct evidence that he and Philip actually had a homosexual relationship is scant.

The source most people point to is a report by Roger de Hoveden, who was a contemporary of the two kings. Here is an English translation of his account:

Richard, [then] duke of Aquitaine, the son of the king of England, remained with Philip, the King of France, who so honored him for so long that they ate every day at the same table and from the same dish, and at night their beds did not separate them. And the king of France loved him as his own soul; and they loved each other so much that the king of England was absolutely astonished and the passionate love between them and marveled at it.

It sounds like solid evidence, but put into the context of the time, sharing a bed wasn’t a big deal. Certainly among lower classes, bed sharing among families happened all the time—it was a way to keep warm, or they might not have been able to afford more than one bed, or had room for more than one. Bed sharing was done as a matter of necessity. There was nothing inherently sexual about it and it was something most did.

In the case of Richard and Philip, the bed sharing and the other statements of love between them were a political statement.  The two had teamed up to overthrow Henry II, and were just announcing to the world that France and England were allies. About the notion that the two were gay, historian Dr. John Gillingham states,

The idea wasn’t even mooted until 1948 and it stems from an official record announcing that, as a symbol of unity between the two countries, the kings of France and England had slept the night in the same bed. It was an accepted political act, nothing sexual about it; just two politicians literally getting into bed together, a bit like a modern-day photo opportunity.

Richard the Lionheart was also known to have held political court in his bedroom. He also rewarded his favourite servants with the opportunity to sleep at the foot of his bed at night. Again, there is no evidence to suggest that anything more than sleeping occurred on these occasions. He shared a bed with others to symbolize trust.

In later years, political leaders would often greet each other with “the kiss of peace” which was Biblically sanctioned. Again, the kiss meant nothing more than a handshake does today.

While the bed sharing and eating together wasn’t necessarily a positive indicator of the pair’s sexual preferences, the two for a time maintained a close alliance and apparent friendship.  In fact, Richard was engaged to Alice, Philip’s sister for a while. However, he ended up renouncing her and spreading a rumour that she was having an affair and had given birth to an illegitimate child. Richard also married his wife, Berengaria of Navarre, while he was still betrothed to Philip’s sister. Not exactly things a person should do if they were trying to keep on the woman’s brother’s good side.

As previously mentioned, Philip also helped Richard win the crown of England. Thanks to their alliance, Philip went to war against Richard’s father with Richard later joining in, ultimately defeating Henry II. Henry then named Richard his heir and died two days later.

Philip and Richard’s relationship eventually soured. The pair spent the last five years of Richard’s life in bitter rivalry and open war. Richard ended up winning many of the battles between the two, but Philip outlasted him. Supposedly, Richard was shot and killed by a boy who was acting out of revenge. Whether that is true or not, the arrow he was shot with didn’t hit anything vital, but the wound became gangrenous, at least giving him time to set his affairs in order before he succumbed to infection.

Was Richard’s and Philip’s enmity part of a lover’s quarrel as is so commonly said today? The evidence for that is scant. So if not “lover’s quarrel” maybe “bromance turned sour…” or perhaps most accurate of all “political alliance that was no longer necessary or convenient.”

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Bonus Facts:

  • Many people argue that Richard was homosexual because he rarely saw his wife and never fathered any legitimate children. However, he did have at least one illegitimate son and reportedly spent time with other women while on Crusade.
  • Richard and Philip fought together during the Crusades, but argued over what to do about certain areas, resulting in Philip leaving for France earlier than anticipated. Richard was then captured, and when he was released Philip warned Richard’s brother John: “Look to yourself: the devil is loose.”
  • Philip’s marital issues also earned him a reputation for being homosexual, though he had enough wives and children to (perhaps) prove otherwise. He had one child with his first wife, Isabelle, who later died in childbirth trying to deliver twins (who also died). He was then married to Ingeborg, the daughter of the King of Denmark, who he despised and confined to a convent before seeking an annulment from the Pope on the grounds of non-consummation. He then took a third wife, Agnes, by whom he had two children, before going back to Ingeborg on the Pope’s orders.
  • As far as kings go, Richard wasn’t a very good one. He only spent six months of his ten year reign in England and cared more about the Crusades than what was going on in his own country. He is popularly remembered as a good king though, partially because of the Robin Hood legends, where Robin Hood was a supporter of Richard the Lionheart and a sworn enemy of the king’s evil brother, Prince John.
  • King Philip wasn’t a fan of John, either. After Richard’s death, John became king. Philip and John were at war for years, as Philip suspected that John had kidnapped and murdered Arthur, his daughter Marie’s betrothed.
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  • It sounds like you don’t want to accept the fact that the two were lovers. Do some more research. Men sleeping with men at those times was not as common as you think.

    • The author provides two quotes, one comtemporary to Richard and one modern, with analysis.

      You provide nothing. Pony up.

      • Ragnarredbeardisconfused

        Lol. The two he gives are
        1.) By an author at the time who in fact seems to make a pretty convincing argument that they have more than just a friendship together. You’d have to be pretty ignorant to ignore the rest of the quote, such as, “they ate every day at the same table and from the same dish” and “loved him as his own soul” that the author of this article doesn’t even attempt to give counterpoints disproving a homosexual relationship. Bad persuasion techniques [not] written all over it.

        2.) A simple google search of Dr. John Gillingham shows he’s employed and heads medieval history at London School of Economics (London school associated with…England) A school facing heavy allegations of homophobic tolerated chants and things of that nature.

        Not to mention he’s published multiply books on Richard which would lead a skeptic to question his motives in arguing against the first, authentic quote…

        Also really with the lower class comparison for sleeping in beds together?? They were both kings for godsake… He gave his most loyal servants the “privilege” to sleep at the foot of his bed, must not have been that special lol

        Proved enough?
        Pony up.

    • No he wasn’t gay at all in fact he was as heterosexual as a man can be because he had a secret Arab wife whom he loved very much but his Bastard people made it hard for him!

    • The latest academic revisionist view is that they weren’t gay

  • Quite true, in those days men sharing a bed was not uncommon, and it didn’t mean there were gay. Often, particularly when the castle was overflowing with visitors due to a tournament, noble wedding or some other big attendance function, it was nothing for three or more to be sharing a bed – beds being a hell of a lot bigger than the modern bed. Even if they were gay, WHO CARES???

    • Kings did not have to share beds. If there were only two beds, they would have gotten them. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary proof and the claim that human behavior in bed has changed (as opposed to how we think about what they did) is the extraordinary claim here. Men get aroused in bed. They always have as far as we know. So those who say it was normal for men to share beds must prove why they didn’t have sex together in them as they would today, and something that was discouraged in olden times by tying people in sacks or putting bundling boards between them. The claim that they were straight and therefore not going to be aroused is nonsensical on its face since all straight men get aroused in bed even when they share it with nobody. It is highly likely that whatever they did in bed may not have been considered “sex” behavior then like it would be today. Indeed, the Bible has men putting hands under each other’s “thighs” (a mistranslation of the Hebrew word for “generative part”) to seal oaths, the way we would prick fingers to make “blood brothers” Except since fondling (or it could have been hand sex) is considered juridical sex today, and this would be looked at entirely differently. So of course Phillip and Richard would not have considered themselves “gay”: their words for it would have been different and not covering quite the same territory of behaviors. But that they had what we consider sex has to be assumed from the document unless there is extraordinary proof to the contrary.

  • Kings did not share beds unless it was to have sex. Your whole line of argument is nonsensical and anti-historical. Worse, it is anachronistic, applying Victorian sexual mores to people who didn’t know what “repression” is. The fact that the text tells you they were lovers and references the story of David and Jonathan in the Bible, which was clearly gay and in Hebrew included an explicit reference to sex between them (which English translators have attempted to hide or explain away in ridiculous tortured verbiage in more recent centuries), the plain truth is human nature doesn’t change and the burden of proof is on those historians who pretend they were not sex partners since the preponderance of evidence here is that they were. The truth is most Christian antigay hate was borrowed from the Muslims because it was Mohammed who reinterpreted the Sodom story to be about gays, and it only gradually built up to a crescendo in the Late Middle Ages as Muslim influence spread. At the early date represented here it is highly unlikely they thought twice about it, nor did any of their entourages. Sodomy has to be proved beyond a reasonable doubt as if this were a criminal court, and frankly, this one might even pass that test. We are not in a courtroom here, and it is a lie to pretend that the time period represented here was one of mass execution and repression of gays. That was to come later with the assassination of DeMolay and the massacre of the Templars. Stop erasing gays from history. If you think it was common to share beds back then, then you also have to explain why it was not common for those sharing beds to have intercourse. Bundling boards were invented for a reason.

  • 1st of all, being gay isn’t just about having sex.

    It’s beyond obvious that the text goes through great lengths to establish the unique, depth of intimacy betwixt the two men, to the point of being distinguished from simple displays of political solidarity of the day, to a distinguished affection of such depth that it was directly spoken to…

    It’s so annoying, the pain ppl go through to rewrite history. The list of Western Civilizations key players who were gay really comes as no surprise to anyone other than those silly enough to believe Hollywood inventions of historical ‘fact’… Including 300/Sparta. Spartans were renowned for being extremely gay, yet still, we need to try to disprove.

    Just accept it already.

  • The Dude argues that it was nothing sexual in sharing a bed with the other man, moreover, he argues, that it was common and approval as an evidence of loyalty. Well, I would rather believe that in Antique Greece but not in the medieval France or England, where homophobia was so typical (thanks to church).
    Besides, he argues that “sharing a bed didn’t have a sexual meaning”, but how could he be so confident that they really didn’t have sex with each other those nights?.. Was he there caring a candle?.. His argument is ridiculous.
    And he mentioned Philip’s children and wives. Well, Edward II also had a wife and four children, but we all know about his love to Gaveston.
    And Philippe de Orleans also had wives and children, so this is not even a statement.
    By the way, I consider that historian just being homophobic and his statements useless.

  • We will never know for sure, but that is it: we will never know for sure. They might have been gay. They shared a bed, and they clearly loved each other. Why do you deny the possibility of them being lovers?